The Quest for a Soulmate

[Monica]

but Monica someone who's into looks and stuff will get a partner who's the same. but why tell someone not to do that if that's what they want?

I'm not telling anyone not to do anything. You have a good point so if that's what they want to do, then go for it!

I was talking about someone who is looking for their soulmate, which is the topic of this thread. Having criteria about looks is a great way to find a partner who is also into looks, but might not be a very effective way to find one's soulmate.