The Quest for a Soulmate

[Monica]

it might be. aren't our mates on the same path as we are?

Maybe. I guess each person will have to figure that out for themselves. In my case, I found my soulmate very quickly after letting go of any attachment to any criteria. So I'm just sharing what worked for me.

At the very least, I would suggest adding some other attributes besides just looks. How many hot babes and hot studs are there out there?

(Not saying you were focused on looks only. I'm sure it was just one of many desired attributes.)

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I think Monica and Oceania are technically saying the same thing. If you have agreed preincarnation with your soulmate to explore catalysts related to physical appearance then you might be searching for a soulmate with specific physical attributes.

You are searching for the mate that will provide the catalysts you need, or at least be the best support for you while dealing with the catalysts you will encounter in this incarnation.

Maybe so. I think it also depends on one's definition of soulmate. Apparently the word means different things to different people.

I've had my share of boyfriends. Each provided what I needed at the time, in terms of catalyst. I wouldn't call any of them my soulmate. They were just temporary. To me, a soulmate is a life partner.