03-23-2012, 08:54 AM
I've spent a decade wondering what to do to the person that molested me, and this thread seems to be full of people still wondering.
I'm wondering about how most people could have the experience bandwith of sexuality introduced to their existence with the least amount of pain.
I feel very strongly that child molesters should be helped to get rid of the molestation / power illusion relating to their interactions. The age at the interaction is irrelevant, the power disparity between the two is what is relevant.
A psychopathic abusive relationship is a psychopathic abusive relationship no matter if one partner is 11 or 91. And that is what we should, in my opinion focus on.
If two people make an informed decision to do something together then the state or the group consciousness should not be given the right to say that one of them is lying. So, as long as one of the people involved doesnt press charges, it doesnt belong to anyone else. The cut-off should be when the person is considered adult enough to make personal choices. What ever you happen to believe such a state of transition into adulthood is personal. My opinion is that the western society should lower the age of adulthood to what ever the people in the community agree is the best age, personally, i would give rights of adulthood at about 13-15 which would be the around the european age of consent average.
I'm wondering about how most people could have the experience bandwith of sexuality introduced to their existence with the least amount of pain.
I feel very strongly that child molesters should be helped to get rid of the molestation / power illusion relating to their interactions. The age at the interaction is irrelevant, the power disparity between the two is what is relevant.
A psychopathic abusive relationship is a psychopathic abusive relationship no matter if one partner is 11 or 91. And that is what we should, in my opinion focus on.
If two people make an informed decision to do something together then the state or the group consciousness should not be given the right to say that one of them is lying. So, as long as one of the people involved doesnt press charges, it doesnt belong to anyone else. The cut-off should be when the person is considered adult enough to make personal choices. What ever you happen to believe such a state of transition into adulthood is personal. My opinion is that the western society should lower the age of adulthood to what ever the people in the community agree is the best age, personally, i would give rights of adulthood at about 13-15 which would be the around the european age of consent average.