03-25-2012, 03:15 PM
Actually, it is false that they are repulsed by displays of love. Many of them are actually individuals who long for understanding companionship, and in their darkest moments it is always as the lament of a distorted perception of love, nearly always as a result of experiences they have had which shattered their trust in the emotion.
In this case, I think it really needs to be considered what a "display of Love" truly is.
Also, I am unsure if you are making the suggestion that only those who are in STO polarity are capable of feeling love towards Other Selves, because I don't believe this to be true. All is Love, but many are very confused by that love and are equally fascinated and repelled by it because of their pain.
And Valtor has more or less given the best example, you show them that there IS someone who cares, there IS someone who loves and won't judge. I have had many people tell me how much they appreciate me because I maintain a bastion of love and positivity, and just my existence alone gives them hope that everything is going to grow in to the Light.
They are seekers looking in the dark, we mustn't whip them from behind, simply give them a gentle call and radiance and attempt to illuminate the walls of the cave, to use a Platonic euphemism.
The greatest fear of these individuals is judgement, of being reprimanded for their self-induced suffering, and they push themselves further and further in to pain and suffering to avoid this judgement. Should the judgement come, they are pleased to be their own executioners.
In this case, I think it really needs to be considered what a "display of Love" truly is.
Also, I am unsure if you are making the suggestion that only those who are in STO polarity are capable of feeling love towards Other Selves, because I don't believe this to be true. All is Love, but many are very confused by that love and are equally fascinated and repelled by it because of their pain.
And Valtor has more or less given the best example, you show them that there IS someone who cares, there IS someone who loves and won't judge. I have had many people tell me how much they appreciate me because I maintain a bastion of love and positivity, and just my existence alone gives them hope that everything is going to grow in to the Light.
They are seekers looking in the dark, we mustn't whip them from behind, simply give them a gentle call and radiance and attempt to illuminate the walls of the cave, to use a Platonic euphemism.
The greatest fear of these individuals is judgement, of being reprimanded for their self-induced suffering, and they push themselves further and further in to pain and suffering to avoid this judgement. Should the judgement come, they are pleased to be their own executioners.
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