Sure ashim, forgiveness indicates that there is a condemnation of sorts whether it is to yourself or another. Some of us aren't as perfect as you so we inquire for help to find our way out of that condemnation.
Ashim, If you have never experienced that you are stuck and unable to "forgive" because you have never had the fortunate experience where you cannot understand why something has happened to you, then you would probably not be a good one for passing out advice. For example, I don't usually give friends with a Jewish heritage advice on how to forgive their familes past and recent perps. because I can't imagine having faced that atrocity in my own heritage. I would likely come up sounded uncompassionate and rather shallow to them.
Lulu
Ashim, If you have never experienced that you are stuck and unable to "forgive" because you have never had the fortunate experience where you cannot understand why something has happened to you, then you would probably not be a good one for passing out advice. For example, I don't usually give friends with a Jewish heritage advice on how to forgive their familes past and recent perps. because I can't imagine having faced that atrocity in my own heritage. I would likely come up sounded uncompassionate and rather shallow to them.
Lulu