01-01-2010, 08:49 AM
I agree, In my experience most people who are searching know exactly what they are searching for. So they themselves are their best guide, but often it needs to be told and shown directly and repeatedly how these people already manifest the beliefs they are searching for.
Especially me, it took me a long time to figure out I was accomplishing my higher goals simply by being me and true to that. I needed to be shown.
If she asks the questions ask her what the answers SHOULD be. They usually know. This helps in pointing out that they obviously know exactly what they are looking for. Where else does this insight come from? And this gives great handles on how to tackle issues related to the question. If you don't know the answer, assume that the answer "that should be" is the correct one. And 90% of the time it works out great, the other times there is a dichotomy and we sometimes need to improvise or make concessions. The world isn't perfect.
There is a dichotomy with the world, which isn't always as it should be. Though it often is. This dichotomy does not mean the answer "as it should be" is wrong. It may just mean we haven't globally figured out yet. We're riding the wave.
Especially me, it took me a long time to figure out I was accomplishing my higher goals simply by being me and true to that. I needed to be shown.
If she asks the questions ask her what the answers SHOULD be. They usually know. This helps in pointing out that they obviously know exactly what they are looking for. Where else does this insight come from? And this gives great handles on how to tackle issues related to the question. If you don't know the answer, assume that the answer "that should be" is the correct one. And 90% of the time it works out great, the other times there is a dichotomy and we sometimes need to improvise or make concessions. The world isn't perfect.
There is a dichotomy with the world, which isn't always as it should be. Though it often is. This dichotomy does not mean the answer "as it should be" is wrong. It may just mean we haven't globally figured out yet. We're riding the wave.