05-24-2012, 06:12 PM
it's not about who gets likes, this isn't a popularity contest. if you wanna make it that that's your ego talking and i'm not gonna mollycoddle anyone's ego.
you can see no likes as a lack or you can focus on the surprise moments you get a like or can give a like, because i see that as a little cheer up moment. i don't write posts to get likes but i appreciate if i get one randomly. i see likes as a way of telling someone i appreciate that moment i read what they wrote and it touched me or i agree with something or when Gemini posts his furry stuff i like and at the same time i send him some love for being him. it's a way to send some appreciation without words. words are sometimes hard and a like goes a long way. i would be sad if it was taken away.
intent is what gives it meaning. but we can't control how others perceive our action.
you can see no likes as a lack or you can focus on the surprise moments you get a like or can give a like, because i see that as a little cheer up moment. i don't write posts to get likes but i appreciate if i get one randomly. i see likes as a way of telling someone i appreciate that moment i read what they wrote and it touched me or i agree with something or when Gemini posts his furry stuff i like and at the same time i send him some love for being him. it's a way to send some appreciation without words. words are sometimes hard and a like goes a long way. i would be sad if it was taken away.
intent is what gives it meaning. but we can't control how others perceive our action.
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