01-05-2010, 12:38 PM
(This post was last modified: 01-05-2010, 12:40 PM by Peregrinus.)
What my thoughts are is that perhaps this person is more sts polarized than you, and your desire to not spend time with him is the result of your desire to avoid the negativity. Perhaps you have a good energy and this person is an "energy vampire", which is why you avoid him?
I know a number of people who have friends like this, and I often wonder why they just don't tell the truth, except I understand that telling the truth is difficult for most humans. I would think that the stos route would be to be simply honest and say that you don't feel that you desire to kick it with him anymore for a) ___ b) ___ c) ___ reasons. It may cause a short term rift, but it may be the catalyst this person requires to understand that there actions are undesirable. If more people had been truthful to this person, perhaps they would not be this way. Perhaps you are in this situation to provide that catalyst rather than him being catalyst for you.
Although there are many way to look at this... to quote Q'uo, "In truth there is no right or wrong".
I know a number of people who have friends like this, and I often wonder why they just don't tell the truth, except I understand that telling the truth is difficult for most humans. I would think that the stos route would be to be simply honest and say that you don't feel that you desire to kick it with him anymore for a) ___ b) ___ c) ___ reasons. It may cause a short term rift, but it may be the catalyst this person requires to understand that there actions are undesirable. If more people had been truthful to this person, perhaps they would not be this way. Perhaps you are in this situation to provide that catalyst rather than him being catalyst for you.
Although there are many way to look at this... to quote Q'uo, "In truth there is no right or wrong".