home of wanderers

[anagogy]

i meant more like, do we get to choose where to reside? if we graduate 4D do the wanderers go home?

Yes, provided they do not get caught up in the planetary vibration by severely lowering their consciousness, wanderers go back to their native density and native sector of space/time and/or time/space.

And it is only "home" because you want to be there so, naturally, it would be a space that vibrates in particular harmony with your own particular beingness -- your own personal heaven as it were.

But then, your idea of "heaven" while looking through the socio-cultural lens of your body may not be the same as your idea of heaven after being free of it.

But be rest assured, it will be quite enjoyable to you.