08-12-2019, 10:59 AM
Whatever she feels for you or anyone or anything is all her—in other words, who you are and your personality or the way you do things and all things about you are not at issue. She experiences the world through her own paradigm, which includes a plethora of filters which may react and be triggered by outside sources.
In my opinion, the best thing you can do for her and the entire world is be true to yourself. How could it help her to become someone you are not? To deny parts of yourself or mold yourself to someone else's distortions (which are continually undergoing change and hopefully evolution) is enabling her to remain as is and does not promote her growth—so in that sense, though it is not the intention, it is like controlling someone else by controlling self.
The best thing you can do for this existence we are sharing is to reach your full potential as an individual entity, with all of your unique talents and awareness. All things flow from that.
In my opinion, the best thing you can do for her and the entire world is be true to yourself. How could it help her to become someone you are not? To deny parts of yourself or mold yourself to someone else's distortions (which are continually undergoing change and hopefully evolution) is enabling her to remain as is and does not promote her growth—so in that sense, though it is not the intention, it is like controlling someone else by controlling self.
The best thing you can do for this existence we are sharing is to reach your full potential as an individual entity, with all of your unique talents and awareness. All things flow from that.