11-05-2015, 04:04 AM
Note to Mods: NSFW my friends is NOT here. Totally SFW thread that I hope remains such. Everyone else please try to keep it as such (use yer best judgment lol).
I am of a very odd kind of guy so my views may seem odd or abstract...I fear. So please try not to judge me too hard here.
I think sex is, for lack of elegant words, healthy and fun and natural. I used to think I wanted sex very very often, but now I understood those cravings as red and orange ray overactivations. But even when tame and balanced...I think about sex often. This apparent trait in men makes me a perverse gross guy, similarly, this trait in girls makes them slutty.
Now I know I'm not a pervert in an inappropriate sense, I can be perverse but not in a corrupt way its usually socially inferred, in the same way, girls aren't sluts for thinking about sex often.
I've noticed sex is abused often in society. Blatantly overindulged, masking natural body-forms for unnatural perpetrated forms that are 'more attractive' (See: FAKE AS $#1%). This expands to pushing the envelope of 'acceptable' constantly. Models who look 14 posing as lingerie models, men ripped with good genes and stony bellies sport a rather large basket-case to stare at for underwear ads.
But most 18 year olds aren't model styled 'attractive', most men aren't that image. But those ideas of sexy bastardize the true nature of sex in my mind, the true humanform of sexy.
What is Sex? Its an act of...what? Body? Mind? Spirit?
If I may pull from experience without sounding arrogant. Sex for me, and no I dont know sex all that well, was a very fulfilling process. I actually can't manage without my mind being 'in the act' as well. For some girls I couldn't get into the act because it felt wrong. For my last ex, being in love with the person made sex second nature to me. It was like, if we're not having sex once a day for no reason there's a disconnect it feels like, but worse than that is when the atmosphere between us two didn't align anymore, sex was no longer fulfilling.
So for me, I need an emotional/mental security with the person. I can't just throw off my clothes and go for it (even though I've tried to be that way as socially told I'm supposed to by other duudes). And in that way I wonder about sex, What its like for people who just throw it around and about to whoever they want to sleep with.
Sex in today's world is very detached and purely physical. Sex to me is on a sense spiritual. But so pleasureable its fun to focus on for extended times and more fun to experiment in, and in a way, that fun, and experimentation is a phase I never had. I had Love for a while and that didn't last. Sex ensued and it wasn't the same.
But overall there is a difference, I don't know of if its just me or not hence one reason for the thread.
To me proper sex isn't about reaching orgasm, its about getting the other person to feel more than accepted, but fulfilled inwardly, to provide them pleasure and ease them, to make everything worthwhile. Sex wasn't about just pleasure, it was an act to empower the other like I am. Spiritually speaking its what I figure Ra called Fusion, imbuing your energy as lovingly into the other as you possibly could. Whether it means going for a good rhythm or just getting rough with the motions or more controlled or what not, it all loses value and energy when you remove the mind, remove the care, remove the fulfillment.
In terms of chakra, you could say I notice a lot of purely red, orange, and yellow activations and transfers, but not so much green, I even notice blue and indigo activations but without green they usually require some form of restraining or a different configuration of sexual act (fetishy stuff comes to mind).
When the red ray is the main activation or sole chakra going, sex is bland and straight forward. Orange ray imbues the act with personal power, yellow ray accepts the overall placement of the act in its atmosphere (hook up, love, greed, lust), green ray actually fulfills, provides What makes to me, a perfect experience. Blue ray might be vocalizations but I regard its presence in bodily honesty too. Indigo ray seems to be the overall director, if you can do sex consciously and very awarely vs just going at it mindlessly, you have the power to build a song of energy exchanges with the other.
I leave how and the mental imagery to you all for guideline reasons
I actually think guides help the process overall too if you both allow them too, sort of calling in the Pink Ray of spiritual family guidance and letting your angels and ascended masters create sparks between you two.
-Squirms- Sounds fun to me >~>
I actually enjoy talking causally about sex and learning about it, but this spiritual side of sex is just exciting to discuss and explore in conversation.
If we can avoid overdetailed nsfw tier commentary, I think this thread will be good on the guidelines.
Exploring how society views and explores sex, as well as the act of imbuing intercourse with spiritual awareness are the topics as a final' funnel' sentence to direct us into a certain flow.
Thoughts are welcome!
I am of a very odd kind of guy so my views may seem odd or abstract...I fear. So please try not to judge me too hard here.
I think sex is, for lack of elegant words, healthy and fun and natural. I used to think I wanted sex very very often, but now I understood those cravings as red and orange ray overactivations. But even when tame and balanced...I think about sex often. This apparent trait in men makes me a perverse gross guy, similarly, this trait in girls makes them slutty.
Now I know I'm not a pervert in an inappropriate sense, I can be perverse but not in a corrupt way its usually socially inferred, in the same way, girls aren't sluts for thinking about sex often.
I've noticed sex is abused often in society. Blatantly overindulged, masking natural body-forms for unnatural perpetrated forms that are 'more attractive' (See: FAKE AS $#1%). This expands to pushing the envelope of 'acceptable' constantly. Models who look 14 posing as lingerie models, men ripped with good genes and stony bellies sport a rather large basket-case to stare at for underwear ads.
But most 18 year olds aren't model styled 'attractive', most men aren't that image. But those ideas of sexy bastardize the true nature of sex in my mind, the true humanform of sexy.
What is Sex? Its an act of...what? Body? Mind? Spirit?
If I may pull from experience without sounding arrogant. Sex for me, and no I dont know sex all that well, was a very fulfilling process. I actually can't manage without my mind being 'in the act' as well. For some girls I couldn't get into the act because it felt wrong. For my last ex, being in love with the person made sex second nature to me. It was like, if we're not having sex once a day for no reason there's a disconnect it feels like, but worse than that is when the atmosphere between us two didn't align anymore, sex was no longer fulfilling.
So for me, I need an emotional/mental security with the person. I can't just throw off my clothes and go for it (even though I've tried to be that way as socially told I'm supposed to by other duudes). And in that way I wonder about sex, What its like for people who just throw it around and about to whoever they want to sleep with.
Sex in today's world is very detached and purely physical. Sex to me is on a sense spiritual. But so pleasureable its fun to focus on for extended times and more fun to experiment in, and in a way, that fun, and experimentation is a phase I never had. I had Love for a while and that didn't last. Sex ensued and it wasn't the same.
But overall there is a difference, I don't know of if its just me or not hence one reason for the thread.
To me proper sex isn't about reaching orgasm, its about getting the other person to feel more than accepted, but fulfilled inwardly, to provide them pleasure and ease them, to make everything worthwhile. Sex wasn't about just pleasure, it was an act to empower the other like I am. Spiritually speaking its what I figure Ra called Fusion, imbuing your energy as lovingly into the other as you possibly could. Whether it means going for a good rhythm or just getting rough with the motions or more controlled or what not, it all loses value and energy when you remove the mind, remove the care, remove the fulfillment.
In terms of chakra, you could say I notice a lot of purely red, orange, and yellow activations and transfers, but not so much green, I even notice blue and indigo activations but without green they usually require some form of restraining or a different configuration of sexual act (fetishy stuff comes to mind).
When the red ray is the main activation or sole chakra going, sex is bland and straight forward. Orange ray imbues the act with personal power, yellow ray accepts the overall placement of the act in its atmosphere (hook up, love, greed, lust), green ray actually fulfills, provides What makes to me, a perfect experience. Blue ray might be vocalizations but I regard its presence in bodily honesty too. Indigo ray seems to be the overall director, if you can do sex consciously and very awarely vs just going at it mindlessly, you have the power to build a song of energy exchanges with the other.
I leave how and the mental imagery to you all for guideline reasons
I actually think guides help the process overall too if you both allow them too, sort of calling in the Pink Ray of spiritual family guidance and letting your angels and ascended masters create sparks between you two.
-Squirms- Sounds fun to me >~>
I actually enjoy talking causally about sex and learning about it, but this spiritual side of sex is just exciting to discuss and explore in conversation.
If we can avoid overdetailed nsfw tier commentary, I think this thread will be good on the guidelines.
Exploring how society views and explores sex, as well as the act of imbuing intercourse with spiritual awareness are the topics as a final' funnel' sentence to direct us into a certain flow.
Thoughts are welcome!