03-09-2010, 07:00 PM
Hi, Misty! It's awesome that you had the courage to share these things.
I've had quite a bit of difficulty with my desire for sexual energies as well. Not only have I struggled with sexual cravings, but have also dealt with some similar orange ray issues of seeking to control the sexual experiences I do have to an unhealthy magnitude. I know what a frustrating thing it can be to go through, and want you to know that you have my support.
I have a hard time finding advice for this type of thing...all I can really say is that since becoming more aware of my spiritual self, I've realized that love extends beyond any relationship man can imagine. Sexual, romantic relationships are nice, but suddenly I feel love when I look at a sunset, listen to a river or lock eyes with a stranger across the room. Love is literally everywhere. You don't have to be in a relationship to find it. You can pull it right out of the air because the universe pulsates with love.
I'd say you hit the nail right on the head in saying that you need to learn to love yourself before seeking to deepen your involvement with other selves. If you're not clear inside you can project all of your problems onto other people. You cannot offer your highest service if you consider yourself unworthy.
Welcome to the site!
I've had quite a bit of difficulty with my desire for sexual energies as well. Not only have I struggled with sexual cravings, but have also dealt with some similar orange ray issues of seeking to control the sexual experiences I do have to an unhealthy magnitude. I know what a frustrating thing it can be to go through, and want you to know that you have my support.
I have a hard time finding advice for this type of thing...all I can really say is that since becoming more aware of my spiritual self, I've realized that love extends beyond any relationship man can imagine. Sexual, romantic relationships are nice, but suddenly I feel love when I look at a sunset, listen to a river or lock eyes with a stranger across the room. Love is literally everywhere. You don't have to be in a relationship to find it. You can pull it right out of the air because the universe pulsates with love.
I'd say you hit the nail right on the head in saying that you need to learn to love yourself before seeking to deepen your involvement with other selves. If you're not clear inside you can project all of your problems onto other people. You cannot offer your highest service if you consider yourself unworthy.
Welcome to the site!