I was pushed by my social memory complex to be here...

[Jeremy]

I agree and I don't ever remember reading anything where a social memory complex actively takes part in a single incarnation of a wanderer. I'm not saying it can't happen but once you made the decision to rejoin 3D, you made that leap of faith that you would eventually remember and awaken to your true reason you incarnated here. I'm assuming that once you went back into a lower density, your higher self would be the only "controlling" aspect apart from your guides.

Also if you would like to read about someone becoming an adept, search for godwide_void. I came at the tail end of his tenure here and is what I would consider an adept ( someone could correct me if I'm wrong)