04-10-2014, 06:20 PM
(04-05-2014, 05:28 PM)Hotsizzle77 Wrote: I'm posting this thread because I view everyone on here as my family. The ones who see life from a total different perspective rather than the ones who are living the planetary dream.
My mother doesn't approve of my girlfriend, as a result I'm living two separate lives. I live at home and see my girlfriend 4days of the week.
I just can't take it anymore, being in the middle of the two women I love most, both complaining about each other. My mother is very stubborn, she won't even be civil with my girlfriend.
On top of that, my stepfather is an a****** who is probably the most negative miserable person I've ever met.
He gets high off of correcting people and makes me walk on eggshells in my own home.
I asked my mother today if she was ever going to be civil with my girlfriend, and she played the victim (she's very sensitive).
She told me to leave her the hell alone and if it wasn't for my brother she would just "disappear".
She is most likely going to kick me out, god knows where I'll go from there. I'm trying to stay positive.
Everytime I try talking to my mom about my girlfriend she cuts the conversation. It's very difficult.
I love family, and I'm a very compassionate person so this is a difficult time for me. Anyways I love you all
No advice from me either...just a question: Does it seem that your mother is acting out of fear? We often fear what we don't understand. Just a thought. L/L to you.