Understanding STO,STS, Densities

[anagogy]

I would disagree that what I am trying to say does imply to elude choices. Even if you have both polarities on an equal footing, you are still making every single choices. The outcome of the choices do change unlike if they were only of one kind. Blending both is hard and it is even harder to judge what is needed by an other-self for his path. Not all do need light to advance. I do think we are here to understand the blending of both polarities and their respective role and importance in the perfect Creation. Afterall even if one rejects the STS path, is it not acknowledged by Intelligent Infinity Itself? Whether you serve self or other-self, you are serving self of the One. Some are agents of order and others are agents of disorder and the blending of both creates many-ness to be explored.

Personally, I don't believe it is possible to "blend the polarities".  At least, not till 6th density.

That is why this is the "density of choice".  Because you can't progress beyond it, without making the choice between positive or negative.  The whole reason there even is a choice in the first place is because we are in an illusion of duality.  We are still privy to the illusion that there are, in fact, "other selves". You have a seemingly real division, or identity, apart from other selves in the cosmos.  So, in every moment, you have to choose how you relate to said other selves.  You can either be positive towards them or negative towards them.  You can either blend yourself with other-selves, in cooperative harmony with the greater whole, or attempt to pull others into your self by subjugation, by putting "things in order" (decided by the self).  Radiate or absorb.  There is no middle ground, otherwise you are not progressing toward unity, but rather, simply existing in the "sinkhole of indifference".

Many people think it is wrong to equate STO with "good" and STS with "evil", but I emphatically disagree.  Granted, the terms "good" and "evil" are imprecise, but I think they do, accurately, capture the general spirit of the aforementioned polarities.  Someone who serves self at the expense of others is evil, and someone who serves others for the benefit of the whole is good.  The main inaccuracy, from my point of view, is the notion, espoused by many seeming religious "authorities", that the creator frowns upon the choice of "evil".  It doesn't care, or mind at the choice at all.  The Law of One blinks neither at the darkness, nor at the light.  

Both are valid choices of serving the One.

Every time you relate to other selves, the choice presents itself in every subtle interaction.  The only reason polarity is transcended in sixth density is because other selves are no longer seen as other selves.  Hence, there is no "choice" about how you relate to them, it becomes a simple matter of universal harmonics.  And in the absence of separation, negativity is no longer possible.  Positivity is the default state, but in the absence of negativity, you can't really even define it as such.  It is just unity. But when all selves are seen as one self, serving self, and serving others comes to mean precisely the same thing.