[split] "Some people eat animals, some don't."

[Billy]

Aion, I'd say leave her alone.  We showed her the door, but she refuses to even peer into it.  I don't want to push her, lets just let her be..

A little condescending don't you think TP?  Is it the content of Monica's posts that you don't agree with or is it her approach?  I can see why people would think that it is controlling, and I would feel the same if I was on the end of it, but as has been said, our reactions are an internal and personal issue.  Maintaining such a view, and doing the internal work that comes with it, is far more rewarding than pointing the finger, in my opinion.