(10-14-2016, 03:13 PM)Aion Wrote: Ah, but see, you again bring up 'better'. Not all pain is emotional and mental, physical pain is not so easy to simply drop but it's effects upon the spirit can be felt just as severely. I do not lament my suffering but rather I believe it is something which has shaped me due to the very fact that despite endless effort, it will not just 'go away with thoughts of love' and it is somewhat naive of you to think that I have not put effort towards 'just letting go'.
I don't think you have not put effort towards letting go, you simply have many things to let go of and sometimes healing is not something so much achievable within one lifetime if you are not balanced out of here and were broken apart too deeply. I get why my words can seem to speak of results but they hint about direction. It's not so much about you specifically but the Creator within us. In my own movement away from suffering, I cannot advocate the tools I have used to entertain my suffering with.
Everyone is unique and when I spoke of predator and victims, I said both do require healing and that the steps of this healing is specific to each. We all are distorted in unique ways and I merely try to remove the line between predator/victim because I believe this line often aims at not finding love for those who are the predators and which I find to see victims within. I have compassion for both.
(10-14-2016, 03:13 PM)Aion Wrote: At this point I don't think I am even suffering from those emotional or mental issues, I'm just grumpy and cynical because of the hernia. After the surgery I'll probably be in a much more comfortable state and be more peaceable.
Well that is well, I wish the best for you.