@SMC
To comment on what you shared, the thing is that not all women have such experiences just like there are men who had truly bad experiences themselves. I get why a woman or a non-straight or non-white person can have a heavier focus in feeling repressed, but there are still white straight males that got brutally beaten up to near death and others who were lead to suicide because of psychological attacks over time, there even are cases where women are what led men to suicide.
The woman seems to be from the same place I live based on the text and I would say this place is, as far as I'm aware, quite a good place on this stuff. In my life I never saw racism being played in front of my eyes, nor sexism on a big enough scale that it wasn't just people to people interaction, heck I probably saw more men be intimidated by women than I saw the opposite. Though I would think she is older than I am and grew up in a different time and I do think there was more problems of this kind in the past and things here got a whole lot better. Racism for example seem very strong in the older generation (old people) but not so much present in the younger ones.
Gender, race, sexual orientation does not matter, to focus on this is to reinforce separation among people based on these traits and reinforce the manifestation of this dissonance of perspective within the planetary mind. To seek to see all as equals is to reinforce that people are equals, and this mentality does not prevent you to go to the help of someone nor bring them comfort if they need it. There are strong willed women just like there are weak willed men.
In term of creating your reality, it is a very complex thing. Every event has power to shape what you become and sometimes being hurt and broken is a mean to become what you desire to become. For it to happen you need to be within circumstances you feel hopeless, you require others that are so deep in their unwellness they will seek to wrong others, you need to feel like the world is against yourself and seeks your doom. But I tell you, anyone that wrongs you is an actor of your own fate, they answer unconscious desires of yourself and provide you with the steps you require to become that which you desire to become.
Did you want to be a facet of the Creator that knows not what it is to be wronged? That can't emphatize with powerlessness in the face of others? That knows not what it feels like to be broken? That wanted to contain solely experiences of being well and bathing in a constant blissful light? If you are here in this place, I really well doubt that the spark of Creation you are desired these things and instead quite the opposite. There is beauty in all of it, sometimes it takes time to distill, sometimes it takes time to understand, a long long time.
You will heal, you will become greater than you were, you will become both more loving and understanding of others, and you will shine a brighter light through all of this. This is what you gain from these experiences and why, as a timeless infinite being, you can will them as part of your path to become that which you desire to become as Co-Creator.
You bolded this portion of Octavia's post. I beg to differ upon this, it is well to explore both parties and if you work with victims then it is more important to explore those you seek to help than to explore those you are less likely to work with or that are more likely to reject help or guidance/healing you can provide.
On a positive scope, to explore the psychology of anyone should be a mean to find greater love for all that is.
To comment on what you shared, the thing is that not all women have such experiences just like there are men who had truly bad experiences themselves. I get why a woman or a non-straight or non-white person can have a heavier focus in feeling repressed, but there are still white straight males that got brutally beaten up to near death and others who were lead to suicide because of psychological attacks over time, there even are cases where women are what led men to suicide.
The woman seems to be from the same place I live based on the text and I would say this place is, as far as I'm aware, quite a good place on this stuff. In my life I never saw racism being played in front of my eyes, nor sexism on a big enough scale that it wasn't just people to people interaction, heck I probably saw more men be intimidated by women than I saw the opposite. Though I would think she is older than I am and grew up in a different time and I do think there was more problems of this kind in the past and things here got a whole lot better. Racism for example seem very strong in the older generation (old people) but not so much present in the younger ones.
Gender, race, sexual orientation does not matter, to focus on this is to reinforce separation among people based on these traits and reinforce the manifestation of this dissonance of perspective within the planetary mind. To seek to see all as equals is to reinforce that people are equals, and this mentality does not prevent you to go to the help of someone nor bring them comfort if they need it. There are strong willed women just like there are weak willed men.
In term of creating your reality, it is a very complex thing. Every event has power to shape what you become and sometimes being hurt and broken is a mean to become what you desire to become. For it to happen you need to be within circumstances you feel hopeless, you require others that are so deep in their unwellness they will seek to wrong others, you need to feel like the world is against yourself and seeks your doom. But I tell you, anyone that wrongs you is an actor of your own fate, they answer unconscious desires of yourself and provide you with the steps you require to become that which you desire to become.
Did you want to be a facet of the Creator that knows not what it is to be wronged? That can't emphatize with powerlessness in the face of others? That knows not what it feels like to be broken? That wanted to contain solely experiences of being well and bathing in a constant blissful light? If you are here in this place, I really well doubt that the spark of Creation you are desired these things and instead quite the opposite. There is beauty in all of it, sometimes it takes time to distill, sometimes it takes time to understand, a long long time.
You will heal, you will become greater than you were, you will become both more loving and understanding of others, and you will shine a brighter light through all of this. This is what you gain from these experiences and why, as a timeless infinite being, you can will them as part of your path to become that which you desire to become as Co-Creator.
Quote:it is far more coherent to psychologically explore the infringing party than it is to psychologically explore the party that has been infringed upon, at least in the context of the concept of he who manifests his own reality. For in my limited understanding, excessive and conscious control is the way of the negative path.
You bolded this portion of Octavia's post. I beg to differ upon this, it is well to explore both parties and if you work with victims then it is more important to explore those you seek to help than to explore those you are less likely to work with or that are more likely to reject help or guidance/healing you can provide.
On a positive scope, to explore the psychology of anyone should be a mean to find greater love for all that is.
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