"You create your reality"

[Minyatur]

Sometimes, what victims need to get past separation is for someone who hasn't been through what they've been through to acknowledge their legitimate need to spend space/time healing.

Well that is fine, I was touched when SMC shared about her own being but what I have been discussing is lashing on things external to her being. Sharing a story about a woman who was victimized is not asking for help in healing, it seeks to project dissonance in perception of man and woman. Like I said, there are also men who had really bad lifes and were lead to abuse by women, I think this explains well why I think it's not about making a gender war or racial war but instead focus upon the fact the person is hurt and work with that.

There are myriads of reasons one can be hurt but the mechanics of healing will remain simpler than the complexity of being hurt.

I think this may define the word "privilege" as it has been attempted to be used here on these forums perfectly. In my experience, my father was a horrible racist and misogynist, so it was part of my every day life. When I read that line, all I thought was, "What a privilege to not have experienced these things!" Some of us have preincarnative programming that has little to do with being able to pinpoint it on a thoughtform from this current incarnation. Did I resonate with "victimhood" before this incarnation? I think a more constructive way to frame it would be that I resonated with martyrdom, the giving of myself to others without hesitation to the point of detriment. This meant just victimizing myself by the means of my being of an entity that vibrated in 4th density energies and choosing my family which decidedly didn't. This programmed me for future experiences where I personally experienced sexism towards me from others than just my own family. It's not something I still currently experience but I could likely still find a wound or two to rip open from my myriad of experiences of having my gender be the cause of a mess.

My life circumstances are a mean to work on what I desire to work upon and my soul holds it's own share of scars that it makes me wonder whether all this priviledged stuff is not merely a mirror upon that your sensibles souls grew in what you would call priviledged worlds. I don't feel like my soul is one that grew in any peaceful vegetarian worlds where beings evolved in bliss. I think it's been torn apart, broken, stepped upon countless times and fell into an abyss of darkness that made it become everything it could have sought to reject becoming. At a certain point the way out of the abyss was to open myself to the awareness that all of my fate was to shape me to become as I desired, that indirecrly I used each who had hurt me and that each time I was hurt the other also hurt itself. That there is much sorrow and compassion to find for those who wrong you if you seek to have the greater perspective. So while I had good life circumstances, the perspective I offer does not feel in any way as one that was molded without pain.

I'm not just priviledged, I feel literally blessed by this world on a daily basis. So often when I wanted to do shrooms I saw the overcast sky open up on the stars for me, so often I saw clouds stop raining to accomodate me, so often I saw that my every bad luck contained a greater luck and had meaning. I'm sorry I don't get hit by my reality, I feel in very good harmony with this planet and worked myself the karma I currently have over lifetimes. More than once I felt unworthy of the karma I have but I still can't deny that it is where I am at. I might not be overly polarized and leaning a tad on neutrality in my desire to shape my external reality, but one thing that is certain is that I make positive interpretation of catalysts and rarely have a need to be stuck within karmic loops to learn something. When I sincerely wanted to know why I was blessed so much by this world, I was hit by a compassion so strong it tore my heart apart and made me reject it's light. So yeah, I don't think I am all that alien to what it means to be broken but you are free to limit your interpretation of my words to my lifetime circumstances that simply were meant to allow me to more easily crystalize a greater positive gaze upon things.

I wish I could say sexism and racism doesn't exist in my reality, but almost every single woman I meet who has a job is a victim of sexism because they make 1/4 less than what men make. 1/3 of The US's prison population is African American when they make up only 12% of our total population. Over 60% of the prison population is people of color, while over 63% of the total population is actually white. I can't say racism/sexism doesn't exist. This is bypassing the issues that are still current and ongoing that will take time and lots and lots of loving communication and understanding for our planetary mind to deal with. Yes, I know, it is ever possible to get to that point of unity in one strong moment of inspiration, but I'm also just trying to be realistic with what I can personally do to help others in the moment. Obviously, as proven by discussions here, appeals to unity/infinity aren't always the answer. So what do we do in between?

People find the world unfair on myriads of things even if it isn't on the things you mentionned.

It's not about changing things in one moment of unity but gain momentum in a chosen direction. I gave the example of where I live at because I think things are well here because people did things otherwise. The racial bias and gender bias slowly dropped out of not being energized. The USA is probably the worst example of a country (ok, maybe not but maybe so still) and your society has it's root issues that makes it so.

While I get why you can see my words as without love, I already stated I would find myself to be without love if I were to seek to reinforce negative interpretation of catalysts and dissonance among people. I don't think I speak without love and even if my words get rejected in the moment, I will leave them with a hope they allow one day one grand moment of healing when the person is open to it. Healing implies transformation and a change of perspective, the person needs help to get out their patterns of thoughts.

We're dealing with a heart chakra issue. It involves moving this energy up to the blue ray. As victims attempt to share their victimhood, in blue-ray energy, support should be offered until that blue-ray gains enough footing that we can guide others to accurately seat these injustices within their experience. Telling them to just get over it because it doesn't exist in your reality is not productive, in fact in my opinion it leads to repression which just exacerbates the problem.

It touched me when SMC shared about herself, like I said, but sharing stories of others is trying to make it not about her own healing. Like I said there have been both women and men of any race, any sexual orientation, any gender that experienced being hurt by others and were lead to suicide. Categorizing hurt souls into groups is not useful in my opinion and shows dissonance in the perception of other-selves and not a desire to see all as One, nor the self in others nor others in the self. This dissonance of perception is hurtful of itself and someone that knows better should offer a different and more unifying perspective.

Gender, race, sexual orientation does not matter, to focus on this is to reinforce separation among people based on these traits and reinforce the manifestation of this dissonance of perspective within the planetary mind.

That's a great point.

We are still working with third density energies. Do you call yourself a boy? Then, according to what Minya said, you are reinforcing separation in the planetary mind. Do you still use money? Then you are reinforcing separation. Do you still buy products made by slaves in third world countries? Then you are reinforcing separation. To call people out for having issues with sexism and racism, that you yourself haven't even experienced, for reinforcing separation seems extremely hypocritical to me. Why is it so hard to acknowledge that healing needs time - and that is literally what third density is about? Learning how to heal ourselves, and maybe others, through the passage of time. To tell others that their open wounds "don't matter" and are "reinforcing the manifestation of dissonance within the planetary mind" is callous. Don't you see how this isn't a resolution, but merely making the perceived victim into your perceived aggressor? You're accusing them of polluting your planetary mind. Maybe taking time to seek an awareness of what actually is going on in the planetary mind, instead of focusing on your own personal experience, might lead to a greater understanding.

I think it's farily obvious that quite often activism reinforces that it seeks to erase. A vegan activist can reinforce the desire of others to eat meat, someone that fights racism can very well just accentuate it in others.

This is why the Law of One offers guidelines about polarity and manifestation and also tools to understand one's karma and open up to one's divine nature.

I seek to share awareness that there is no victims/agressors because it is a transcending truth that anyone can acess and crystalize an understanding of within themselves. It is freeing and the moving toward a positive interpration of catalyst, which as per the Ra material, is the point of catalyst to begin with and which avoidance of will call for the karmic cycles to repeat.

Understand well that I was talking to SMC specifically in a reply to something she said on this very forum. Nowhere did I say that this would be what I would tell just anyone, I guess there is a part of me that feels like it knows SMC contains within herself an awareness and understanding of things that is more healthy and healing for both herself and others.