"You create your reality"

[octavia]

If you were an entity who was alone and wounded and a stranger came upon you and told you essentially to "stop it", would you assume they were offering you friendly and helpful advice?

Well, that is overly simplistic in my opinion. But if someone explained, repeatedly, ad infinitum, that that thing I was doing was doing the opposite of what I wanted it to do, I would hope one might pause and at least ponder the efficacy (or lack thereof) of one's behavior.

Hi Anagogy,

One can only be of service to another to extent that the other self desires to be served. If one entity offers another entity a perspective, and this entity says "no, I do not agree with this, and I am not interested in pursuing it further in any way", it is not useful to reiterate that which the entity has already dropped via their own discernment. As such, to explain, repeatedly, ad infinitum, to an entity who is not calling for help, who is not calling for that perspective, is to tread perilously close to the territory wherein a perspective is thrust upon another entity unwillingly and most unhelpfully.

It is the salvation of third density because there is so little love here, but as Ra states in that same quote that it ultimately creates a mismatch in the ultimate scheme of energy balance. It is an absolute relief to the harsh reality of 3rd density but that doesn't mean that there aren't more finessed and refined applications of love that become apparent with higher density wisdom (that are still wholly applicable within this realm). Why use a rock to hammer out a distortion when the scalpel is available? I've seen plenty of situations in my life where tough love had far more of an efficacious impact than unrelenting fluff. Different strokes for different folks. There are many different teachers. A message is never going to resonate with everyone universally. That would be an impossible and unrealistic expectation.

If it is already agreed upon that depending on the situation, different blends of love and wisdom may be called for, and if service is understood as a case by case basis depending upon an entity's distortions and the nature of their calling, then it may already be seen how it is most inefficacious to apply whatever has been useful to the entity who hears the call as a sweeping model of understanding concerning those who have suffered at the hands of others. For the nature of their calling and the proper blend of love and wisdom that is thus called for may not be whatever has been useful in the past for the particular entity who hears the calling.