"You create your reality"

[Minyatur]

It touched me when SMC shared about herself, like I said, but sharing stories of others is trying to make it not about her own healing.

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SMC came to this thread and shared what she shared not to seek healing, but to deny that she creates her reality through an attempt at making others disbelieve they create their reality through the use of examples of people who are unrelated to this forum.

I cannot imagine where you get that idea from or how you presume to understand someone else's intention in simply sharing a story. Sharing testimonial of people who have experienced something similar, something traumatic, and something systemic is a way to show how it is systemic, how it exists beyond an individual experience. Perhaps someone resonates with a story of someone else's experiences and thus shares it to better express their own feelings or experiences. It's up to an individual to determine what is in support of their own healing.

Well it is an interpretation based on the context of the thread, which can either be valid or erroneous to various extents.

I am well aware of the many paths of healing which can go as far as consciously hurting others, what I meant is that she did not come here specifically asking for compassion, healing and for the subject of the thread to not be discussed, like Jade seemed to imply. Anyone is free to make that interpretation like I made my own, but it would still come down to what you told me, they would be presuming to understand someone else's intention in simply sharing a story and offer what they believe the other person calls for like I did.