Is this a cold decision?

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I don't think it's a cold decision, as I believe that you don't actually 'cut off' anyone out entirely. Maybe on a physical level, and that holds a great amount of love in the metaphysical. So, if you can do it out of love for both of you, I think it's perfectly fine. We all need some space to heal and nurture.

Blossom have you ever been on the receiving end of this treatment? There is no "loving" way to cut someone out of your life completely. And trust me, to be cut off on the physical level is painful enough! I know first hand.

Of course I have.. I had a fiancee of almost 4 years. Trust me, I know.