Is this a cold decision?

[Cainite]

Fair enough. But having been on the receiving end of this treatment my outlook on it has changed considerably. I wouldn't wanna put anybody through what I went through.

I feel you, mate.

I'm sorry for what has happened to you.
In my case.. they don't love me that much to suffer as u do.. but they're lonely still.

I also went through that too.. when someone left the country, I was troubled but then she returned. now I don't like her as much..