Is Sending Love STO?

[Minyatur]

What if love for the family becomes unconditional? and went out of its way to make someone sacrifice to some extent.

There are many people who live with a physically or mentally unhealthy family member. if they see service is required there, even though they care for the rest of the world still they see the ones who are already loved on a personal level as priority.

Is that considered an animalistic instinct?

Well it's not that you can't love your family, but true unconditional love wouldn't differentiate between family and strangers for example. You wouldn't sacrifice someone for the well being of your family.

So I guess the idea is to not love more, but then again it is natural to love "more" those whom you spend more time with as you get to know them in a deeper fashion.

This is what the material says on a clear yellow ray:

Ra: I am Ra. Each entity must, in order to completely unblock yellow ray, love all which are in relationship to it, with hope only of the other-selves’ joy, peace, and comfort.

So about your question, if it was automatic to do so, then it would not be polarizing. If your realization of self and other-self created the need to make a choice, then it would yield polarity. The veil is there to accentuate the need of making a choice, which is what accelerates progress in this density, how deeply we can view ourselves as separate.

True unconditionality is a bit theoric in 3D I think and not the full point of the experience, we are just supposed to gain a leaning toward it. Still, I think it is an ideal helpful for balance and in 4D we will progress deeper in that direction. It is not so much human to have completely unblocked lower rays, so we will always be conditional to various extents.