Public Apology

[kristina]

I think the thing is that humans are dynamic and shifting, but when someone writes words on a forum it becomes 'frozen in time' as it were and even though the person may have moved on in their thoughts whomever might read it may only see that frozen moment and idea.

For that reason there have been a couple times I have done a post purge of previous accounts and removed everything I had written.

I totally agree. I wish I could purge some of my earlier posts. I have a hard time (but am learning to express more softness). I have a sharp edge but never mean to be taken as a cold, indifferent individual. It's funny how we see ourselves and then the world sees a different you. I happen to like bluntness, sometimes it actually makes me laugh because it comes from an untarnished place and that happens to make me smile.

I think you come across as someone who thinks about others and how they feel.
I've always got an open, wanting to connect and understand vibe, from you...rather than the "but one of us is wrong" ideology we seem to fall into from time to time.
I think understanding that we are perfectly imperfect, is key.
Acceptance n all that other cool sh!t heh
Most of my old posts are way more considerate.
I think it was born out of control of public perception, than consideration for others' feelings.
Live n learn, I guess.

Thanks for your feedback. It will help me to grow in some way.