Human Relationships and the Concept of Judgment

[jafar]

Over the past few months I have been dealing with a difficult and challenging catalyst having to do with a person I love and my difficulty seeing and noticing her distortions. With the fear of judging, I put myself in a situation of emotional fragility and realized that I was going down the path of martyrdom. Ra talked about the green ray entities being ineffective in the face of others' blockages as opposed to the blue ray entities. It always seemed to me that the path is this balance between wisdom and compassion, but in practice we end up being victims of immoderate love and we close our eyes to things that hurt us.

Does anyone have an opinion or thought about it?

'separated personalities', Us, You, He, She, It, Them by itself is also a distortion.
Separation is a distortion, separation is an illusion.

If you truly 'love' the 'other person' then there will be nothing that will act as a hindrance for you to accept the 'other person' as it/he/she is.

Accepting 'the other entity' as he/she/it is does not mean rejecting 'your entity' as he/she/it is.

Let's say for example Cinggis Khan is continuously bullying jafar..

Cinggis Khan if you don't stop abusing jafar, then jafar will lose his patience with you and he will unleash his wrath towards you.

There is nothing 'wrong' in Cinggis abusing jafar as there is nothing 'wrong' in jafar unleashing his wrath upon Cinggis. It's just an 'implication' of an action which causes a reaction. This is in essence what Karma is all about.

By putting yourself as an 'observer' of the event as experienced by your 'avatar' you can easily switch perspectives around to also see or understand the perspective of the other avatar/entities. And decide the best course of action. Acceptance need to happened towards all entities / avatars/ actors / identities that are involved, including 'your own' identity.

Accept everything as they are, including accepting you as you are.