Caring/Compassion/Sensitivity/Tact vs Lying/Faking

[Aaron]

I'd like to point out something I learned awhile ago regarding discerning whether a person is STS or not.

We all have a mental concept of "person who is STS". This definition changes with time and experience. The problem lies in thinking in terms of unchanging states rather than spectrums, lines rather than circles. Say I am a blank slate 3rd density human, and I am polarizing towards STS. Well, the movement starts out unconsciously, and then becomes conscious. Furthermore, there is a range of behavior tied to this spectrum. How does one get from neutral 3D entity to STS polarized 3D entity? First, one must move through the stages of being a jerk, of being aggressive, of disregarding others' feelings, in order to later come to more conscious states of control and manipulations.

A couple of weeks after I joined the forums, I posted this thread which reflects this faulty black-and-white thinking and oversimplification of concepts:
http://www.bring4th.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=704

Someone who's a jerk isn't necessarily STS. It's not a prerequisite for it either... But they may be on their way to a state which we could all agree is "STS", or they may not... There are so many possibilities.