Relationships and Choosing a Partner

[Plenum]

I would have thought that a 'lifelong partner' would have been a pre-incarnative choice, and that there's not much one can do about it, when you get here

for eg, I have two 'soul brothers' (friends in the truest sense), and the circumstances of meeting each would just boggle your mind in terms of 'how' we ended up in the same place at the same time. And even then, the window of opportunity for striking up a friendship and discovering common interests (vastly different in both cases) would appear from the outside to be most most unlikely.

and yet it happened!

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love (both platonic and romantic) has a way of finding YOU, and not the other way round.