Shin'Ar you're just way, way off. Your entire post is trying to psychologically analyse me and it's predicated on an accurate analysis. But you're way off because you have failed to genuinely empathize with me. Others in this thread successfully have empathized with me, and empathy is identical to understanding. So they understand me and so their comments hit home.
But you don't understand me. Not for a lack of my self-expression. And starting at a place of failing to understand me, you just run with it and go on a long attempt to tell me what's going on with me. You want to educate me on myself, but in this case I really do know myself far better than you know me.
In addition, it's not compassionate to characterize someone's anger as "throwing a tantrum." That is blatant mockery, equating a person with a toddler who gets upset over nothing legitimate.
It's not compassionate or kind to imply that I'm "reading into things" where nothing is there. I'm not reading into things when I say that Shin'Ar is obsessed with talking down to me as if he has higher wisdom and as if he is both entitled and qualified to talk down to me. This is just a fact. You don't talk to me or anyone else as an equal, you don't directly address what we're saying, you assume superiority and then try to "teach" us even when we have not asked to be taught.
Likewise, Pickle's comments ARE mockery because they make light of a serious subject. You don't go to someone's funeral (where people are feeling deeply serious) and start making clowny jokes. You don't go to a Holocaust memorial and then laugh at the anger of a Holocaust survivor. "Just feel love dude! Stop all that frowny faces! LOL WHY U SO BUTTHURT?" These actions are completely inappropriate and it seems that many of the people here are utterly socially incompetent and incapable of understanding this.
At first I was shocked and offended, but now I am understanding that some of you guys are just truly so far gone. Spirituality for you hasn't been a way to connect and find love it has been a way to disconnect into an isolated world of oddness, a schizoaffective world where you're utterly alone. It makes sense that you guys spend so much time posting on the internet: you probably have dysfunctional relationships in real life.
So anyway, keep being weird, condescending, inappropriate, holier-than-thou. Keep characterizing perfectly normal human anger as some kind of vastly abstract failing on the part of the person who is angry, rather than as genuine offence due to offensive parties being offensive.
But you don't understand me. Not for a lack of my self-expression. And starting at a place of failing to understand me, you just run with it and go on a long attempt to tell me what's going on with me. You want to educate me on myself, but in this case I really do know myself far better than you know me.
In addition, it's not compassionate to characterize someone's anger as "throwing a tantrum." That is blatant mockery, equating a person with a toddler who gets upset over nothing legitimate.
It's not compassionate or kind to imply that I'm "reading into things" where nothing is there. I'm not reading into things when I say that Shin'Ar is obsessed with talking down to me as if he has higher wisdom and as if he is both entitled and qualified to talk down to me. This is just a fact. You don't talk to me or anyone else as an equal, you don't directly address what we're saying, you assume superiority and then try to "teach" us even when we have not asked to be taught.
Likewise, Pickle's comments ARE mockery because they make light of a serious subject. You don't go to someone's funeral (where people are feeling deeply serious) and start making clowny jokes. You don't go to a Holocaust memorial and then laugh at the anger of a Holocaust survivor. "Just feel love dude! Stop all that frowny faces! LOL WHY U SO BUTTHURT?" These actions are completely inappropriate and it seems that many of the people here are utterly socially incompetent and incapable of understanding this.
At first I was shocked and offended, but now I am understanding that some of you guys are just truly so far gone. Spirituality for you hasn't been a way to connect and find love it has been a way to disconnect into an isolated world of oddness, a schizoaffective world where you're utterly alone. It makes sense that you guys spend so much time posting on the internet: you probably have dysfunctional relationships in real life.
So anyway, keep being weird, condescending, inappropriate, holier-than-thou. Keep characterizing perfectly normal human anger as some kind of vastly abstract failing on the part of the person who is angry, rather than as genuine offence due to offensive parties being offensive.